Two weeks without TV experiment
Tuesday, July 31st, 2007Introducing to you our very talented guest writer for today, Kendall! You may already know Kendall as my husband. For those of you who don’t know him, I will tell you that he is a great man and the type of person that makes you better just by being around him. For this, and many other reasons, I am happy that he is joining us today. As an avid sports fan he shares both his extensive wisdom and passionate rants over at VIGILANTE SPORTS. While he writes about all things sports, he has a special place for Cubs and Mariners baseball, Michigan college football, and the Chicago Bears. Today we happily welcome him as a guest writer to One/Change.
I’ve not been without a TV in my home ever. When I was growing up I had a TV in my bedroom. A couple of weeks ago my wife and I decided to do an experiment to see what it would be like to remove the TV from our home. How would our interactions change? Would it be the pure bliss that we have heard about from people who don’t own a TV?
Well, let me start with this. Mollie and I don’t really watch a lot of TV. The TV is mainly used for watching DVDs and sporting events. There are a few shows that we’ve gotten into (we both like LOST, and I’m a sucker for Survivor), but other than that the TV isn’t really on. We knew going in that it probably wouldn’t be a huge change, but we wanted to see.
So what happened? Well, 2 weeks ago last Sunday we took the TV down to the storage unit in our basement and locked it up. It had been a pretty focal part of our living room, so we stacked books where it had been. At first it wasn’t a very big deal. We didn’t feel like we were missing anything because it was normal for us to go days without turning it on. There’s something about a long day of work, and a desire to just veg-out that made me long for our TV. Early on in the experiment I found out that I have turned to TV for an easy way to check out of the world. I don’t really like that, and spent the rest of the 2 weeks thinking about that and developing other ways to relax, sans television. I feel the need to confess that we did watch a couple movies on my computer during the experiment. But that really isn’t what the experiment was about.
I’d say that the biggest change was not watching baseball games on TV. Mollie and I both really enjoy following the Cubs and the Mariners, so this was a stretch for both of us. But this past weekend I went to the Mariners game on Saturday with a friend and then on Sunday Mollie and I went together. We decided that if they were in town and we wanted to watch the game, that we could just hop a bus, or walk to Safeco Field, and take in the game in person (bleacher seats are only $7).
So what have I learned from this experiment?
- My wife and I talk more when there isn’t a TV in the house. When it’s easy to just turn on the TV to watch a game, or a movie we’re more likely to do that than talk and listen to each other. This has been the biggest takeaway for me.
- Not having a TV forces me to be more creative. I have to think about what I want to spend my time doing? Going to the park? Going for a walk? Reading? Thinking?
- I really do enjoy watching sports on TV. I miss watching baseball.
- It wouldn’t be as big of a sacrifice as I thought to get rid of our TV.
As of right now (we’re 2 days past our original 2 week time period) the TV is still in the basement. There isn’t anything tugging at me to bring it up. I’m sure we will, but it does feel nice to have it not be something that MUST happen. I think the experiment has caused me to see television for what it is, a luxury item. I don’t need it. I do enjoy parts of having it (mainly watching sports, I can watch movies on my computer). I think the experiment was a success.
If something in you twinged, or tickled when you started reading this, I’d say think about making some sort of change to your TV habits. If you’re someone who watches a lot of TV and couldn’t even consider putting in the basement, maybe try to ration your TV watching. Or cover your TV with a blanket or a scarf to remove it’s prominence in your living space. If you already don’t watch too much TV, consider removing it for a short period of time. See how it makes you feel. What you like and dislike about it. It’s really helped me see my relationship with television more clearly.





